Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Just take some time and live in the moment

The other night I was on the phone with my good friend Brynne. The kind of friend that whenever you get off the phone with you feel like being a better person. Throughout our conversation we talked about family, friends, jobs, our children, motherhood, the gospel, etc. Oh how I love those conversations! During the conversation I was reminded of a story that I shared with her and wanted to share here.

While I was visiting in Virginia last month I was staying at my brother and sister in law's house. Tinsley and I slept in the same room. I slept on the bed and she slept on a mat beside me. One day while I was there I really started thinking about living in the moment, spending more quality time with my girls, and making some fun memories. That same night around 11 I headed upstairs to our room to go to bed and brought an ice-cream treat with me (don't judge me! haha). When I opened the door and tried to quietly walk into the room, Tinsley woke up. Every time this happened while I was there I would whisper, "It's just me. You can go back to sleep." But this night I decided to take my own advice from earlier that day. I crawled into bed with her and said, "Hey, I've got an ice-cream treat. Wanna share?" Of course she said yes. We laid there on her little mat on the floor while passing the ice-cream back and forth. We talked about how yummy it was. Then we were quiet and kept sharing the ice-cream. Then Tinlsey said...

Tinsley: Hey mommy?
Me: Yes?
Tinsley: This is so much fun.

It melted my heart and made me realize how important it is to take time and sometimes just let go. It was nice to talk to my friend and share this story because I was reminded of that time which will always be one of my most favorite moments.


11 comments:

Jaymie said...

That is just precious! Love it Love you too.. so glad you blogged.. now i dont feel so disconnected from you!! xoxo

Mandi Snider said...

Love it! What good advice coming from a great mother! Miss you gals!

Mandy said...

You are such a wonderful mom! Thank you for your inspiration and energy!

Elizabeth said...

So cute!!

Emi said...

One day when I'm a mom, I am ganna call you for advice!

Holly said...

Oh my dear Cate, I love this story, thank you so much for sharing it. You are an AMAZING mom and I want to be more like you! I miss you like crazy and am so glad you blogged, it helps me feel connected still. Love you!

Ryan and Kaeli said...

Seriously Brought a Tear to my Eye!! So cute!!

Gage said...

i love this :)

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